May 19, 2020

What Are You Most Insecure About and What Beauty Product Do Use To Make You Feel Better About It?

Some people use makeup as a mask to help them with their insecurities and I don’t think that’s a bad thing. Makeup is an empowering tool that goes a long way at making us feel better about insecurities we may have. It makes us feel pretty when we aren’t feeling so pretty! It makes our dark circles magically disappear. It makes our noses slimmer. It tackles the difficult job of concealing scarring or acne or dark spots.

Isn’t it a little miracle that something as simple as putting on red lipstick makes us feel like we can take on the world?

I use makeup as a bit of way to hide away my own insecurities. Do you?

I hate my eyes. They’re big, they’re buggy, they dominate my face. I also hate that I sort of look like a little kid when I’m not wearing makeup. I also hate that I always look tired because my eyes dominate my face. I don’t really have dark circles but my eyes have a way of looking sleepy and puffy all the time. You know I’m absolutely obsessed with concealer because I just always look a bit tired no matter how much sleep I get. Someone on Facebook told me the other day, “You work too hard!” And she was totally right. I’m way strict with myself. I typically wake up at 4:30am to start work on the site (in isolation I’m still up at 5AM to work) and from there my schedule is always jammed pack with things to do, people to see, places to be. I have no where to be right now, no people to see. Sadly, quarantine has really cut a lot out of my social activities and put my life on pause. It hasn’t put my insecurities on hold though and I still wake up and makeup to make myself feel pretty. Although, I admit, I’ve been walking around here with a bare face at times too! It feels strangely refreshing until I look in the mirror and I’m all, “Oh girl, get the eyelash curler!”

One of my main tools that comforts me and makes me feel my best is concealer. I don’t use concealer on my face but it is my biggest tool for battling puffy eyes and looking tired! I can honestly say that if I had to choose three makeup things to get me through the rest of my life it would be concealer, cheek stain, and my lash curler. With those three things I can feel pretty again. Granted, I don’t want to live in a world where I need to pick only three makeup things to live with but I can happily get on with those three things if I had too.

What about you?

What’s something you’re insecure about? And what product or products do you use to make you feel better about it?

About the Muse

Isabella MuseIsabella is just an average everyday geeky girl who doesn’t blend her eyeshadow correctly, wears too much blush, and hopes she never finds her holy grail products because she likes the thrill of the chase so much. Her mission is to bring you super honest reviews on makeup, skincare, fragrance and all things beauty. She’s in no way an expert on the topic and she sure as hell isn’t a super model. But she’s passionate about makeup and is seeking like-minded individuals that like pina coladas, getting caught in the rain, and ones that enjoy spending hundreds of dollars at Sephora without feeling buyer’s remorse. If you’re that person feel free to reach out and leave a comment or follow me on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and Bloglovin‘.

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  • Kelly

    Powder foundation, for under eyes and everywhere. Lipgloss for my dry lips. And bronzer to contour my puffy eyelids, and cheeks.

    • Isabella Muse

      you contour your puffy lids with bronzer? Show me your ways Jedi Master!

  • Katie

    I’m a concealer girl too. Covering up my dark circles makes me feel like I can leave the house without scaring anyone. 🙂 My other two are blush to give some life to my pale skin, and mascara. Stay well, Muse.

  • Eraser

    Good for you. I’ve hardly worn any kind of makeup since C19 came over to play, I guess out of apathy and even depression. Last weekend, my county was finally allowed to start opening up and I arranged to meet a friend for a walk down Main Street of my town. I put on a simplified full face and it felt great.

  • ReaderRita

    OMG!!! I totally had to comment. Please do not be insecure! Your eyes are insanely BEAUTIFUL! You are absolutely gorgeous. You really, really have the best eyes of all the bloggers- no lie. They are very striking and they are large, but that is incredibly awesome! People with lesser eyes work for hours to get that effect (me)! Plus, your eyes radiate kindness, and that tells us about your wonderful soul…
    So please, lean in and celebrate your fabulous eyes! (I’m not tryna tell u what to do, but for real- your eyes rock! Let that insecurity go!)

    • Isabella Muse

      oh my god Rita that was the most beautiful comment ever thank you so so so much! That made me feel wonderful today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

        • Isabella Muse

          sniff! I’m tearing up! thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxo!

  • Linatha

    Concealer is my lifeline. I look like an extra in Dawn of the Dead without it. Out of curiosity which is your current fav concealer? Mine is Doll 10 TCE.

  • mellokitty

    Seriously, YOU hate your eyes? They’re beautiful Muse. In fact they’re kinda like mine and my eyes are my favorite part of my face. Dark and large eyes can do a lot with makeup. Yeah I have dark circles that irritate me but that’s what concealer is for. I only follow An Knook tutorials because she mostly focuses on the eye. So yeah…do up them eyes!

  • Wendy Ervin

    I was always proud of my feet, I did my own pedicures, they were pristine. Then in Dec. I got an infection from a splinter of all things in my left big toe. It’s important to mention I am a T1 diabetic. So after only 7 days they amputated my toe. I have amazing shoes and 37 pairs of flip-flops. No more heels, have to wear special shoes and orthotics. No matter how much of a train wreck I was I could always look down and feel better. Not anymore. My feet were the only thing I liked about myself. Now I have a little monkey foot. I know I’m feeling sorry for myself, but at 54 it’s pretty much downhill from here.

    • ReaderRita

      @Wendy Ervin: Oh, please don’t say that it’s all downhill from 54 on, lol!
      Also, not to be all MOM or anything, but- just because you are missing a toe now doesn’t mean that your feet are any less beautiful. Don’t let yourself be trapped by that outmoded thought that if you aren’t exactly what society has taught us is “pristine” then you aren’t perfect, because it just isn’t true. Would you say that a child born without a toe should be ostracized? No, of course you wouldn’t; that child is beautiful- so why be so hard on yourself? Inclusive includes you!
      Yes, you are different now, but that doesn’t mean you are any less amazing. It hurts my soul that you feel less than beautiful. Please know that you are wayyyyy more than just a toe.
      You may not have control of everything that happens to you, but you DO have control of how you choose to react to things that happen. I think you should start a blog about beautiful pedicures for people who have lost a toe! Or just how to do beautiful pedicures! I would read it in a heartbeat- I suck at pedis!

  • Lacey

    This is a really interesting thing to think about!! When I was younger, I hated my nose…so I pierced it, LOL. I don’t mind it now. My eyebrows used to be a HUGE issue (90’s overplucking kid) but I microbladed them so that’s solved. My skin, thanks to KB, is pretty decent, but I don’t usually leave the house without mascara, tinted moisturizer with SPF, and setting powder.

    FWIW – I think your eyes are striking! Goes to show that what we see as faults in ourselves are not what other people see!

    • Isabella Muse

      Did the piercing give you more confidence? Curious minds! ;-D I’ve never really hated my nose, I just never think about my nose in all honesty. It’s not gorgeous or perfect but it wasn’t something that made me feel insecure. My eyes however, I really do hate them. They just make me appear childlike when I’m in fact a grown ass woman. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that totally made my day <3!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Kelly

    First of all Muse, your eyes are to die for! They’re beautiful! I’m astounded you don’t see that.
    I’m super self conscious about my dark circles, so concealer is my favorite. I looooove Cle de Peau. Treat yourself to it some day if you’ve never tried it. Worth the money.
    I’m also self conscious about my lack of lashes, so I’m addicted to false lashes.

    • Isabella Muse

      nope nope nope they make me feel very insecure. I hate them! When I’m tired you can tell because they get all weird and droopy, when I’m happy the crinkle all up, when I laugh they dominate my face nope nope nope ;-D I love you for saying that though! Oh I have ;-D It’s a bit too dry for me but def like! ;-D I wish I can do falsies but I suck at applying them ;-D

      • ReaderRita

        Miz Muse, I still believe your eyes are fabulous. They are so striking- and (IMHO) I don’t think they make you look too young. They just look fab! Many of the most admired stars have/had big eyes- Sharon Tate, Mila Kunis, Bette Davis, Emma Stone, Anne Hathaway- just to name a few. Girl, (again, not to preach- but…) you got to own those eyes of yours and feel confident that you look grown-ass amaaaaazing! Because you do. SRSLY!

        • Isabella Muse

          awww thanks Rita 🙂 <3! You're lovely <3!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Truly flattered!

  • Irissa

    Isn’t it funny (or ironical) that one of the features that is the lost beautifully striking about you is the very feature that you’re the most insecure about? Your eyes are stunning. I don’t think you look tired or puffy at all.
    One of my greatest insecurities (I have quite many) is my hooded, uneven eyes and sparse, washed out lashes. Oh and my fine lines and dark circles. My eye area, let’s say XD

    • Irissa

      I meant the *most* beautifulky striking of course! Damn phone.

    • Isabella Muse

      awww Irissa thank you so much! You aren’t alone! My fine lines make me feel less than confident too! moisture moisture moisture 🙂 it helps!